In Marriage Which Circumstances Make Them Separated

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Written By Tariq and Students

Recorded By TARIQ AZIZ

In love marriage or arrange marriage which circumstances make them separated
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Never Satisfaction

we never satisfy what ever we have we always want  something new and we never think about our parents or culture

Aggressive nature

we dont have patience we get angry when we think we sacrifice everything for love or parents.

we taunt each other we dont want talk at that time Husband thinks  wife should say sorry and a wife thinks husband should say sorry , we dont want to forgive each other and its all about ego problem and in this situation you think what do you have? And why ? why? Why did you sacrifice everything for the sake of love or for your parents?

Who told you to sacrifice everything for the sake of Love?

Did your parents tell you? Did your lover tell you? Did your family and friends tell you

No dear it was your own decision because you are too young to think you are right and you can enjoy your life

If anyone told you don’t do this so  you always said be off or get lost because you thought you have a lot of experiences and you can live happily forever so let me tell you, this is not a movie  where you are hero and your lover is a heroine coz this is a real tough life you have to survive and suffer a lot of pain

 expectation from our beloved

in love marriage we have lots of expectation from our beloved

we think after marriage we will go for party , park , long drive , every week cinema and student biryani and in the last we will go to ice cream we make up our mind. some times boys think like this and some times girls think like this

but in real life after marriage you have to run your house you have to care about your family and children suddenly it change your life and you get angry you have to face financial problem

Students thinking

time and promises

In love marriage i think that time and promises become reason of separation which both make with each other before wedding. In love marriage they know each other even they know every activity very well but boy's members of house also play very important role in separation becz all family against them if all not then mostly mother or father in law commonly .they did not compromise at all with girl and hit her at every moment .

Life style is different

In arrange marriage , the most current reason of separation  is when boy or girl love someone before their marriage and after marriage he/she not able to forget that person .the main reason one is also that when parents joined them in this relation without their consent. Problems also create that time when their life style is different to each other like education. One is well educated and other is illiterate.

Successful marriage

AOA sir first of all we will discuss that what is marriage. second which kinds of circumstances that becomes the reason of separation. The lord started this relationship till creating human beings until ending of the world. Now we discuss what kind of marriage is successful. we can't say love marriage is successful or arrange. But successful marriage depends upon respect honesty and understanding. whether it is love or arrange. If both of them didn't find these things then this relationship will be spoiled. Sometimes mother in laws have lot of expectations to girl when she didn't fulfill their wishes then they create problems for her. Or husband don't care his wife. she didn't feel happy with him and she victim of illness and loneliness. In short we can say that all above things become the reason of separation.

RESPECT and HONESTY, UNDERSTANING

In my point of view,

About love marriage and arrange marriage,

I think love marriage and arrange marriage both are same, because it's depend on husband and wife, and also sometime depend on family, but the most important thing TRUST, RESPECT and HONESTY, UNDERSTANING if you can get these things in your relation then no need of anything in your precious life So people should think much more about before taking this step then decide, because it's makes life of people, some people said that love marriage is batter then arrange marriage but sometime love marriage makes a trouble for them, GOD knows better because couple makes on the sky, but their protect on our hands therefore, people should think about this before, if you can't protect then think about again and again and should try to solve problems even can't solve just leave on GOD it's last decision, life is not a bed of roses,s0   everyone have to face difficult problems, everybody know better well what's right nd what's wrong s0 I want to say it it's depend him/her some people said that love marriage better so that they know easily each other but they know that like after arrange marriage  they can know better each other  and it's true love.......I don't know further about this but love or arrange both r same it's my thinking,,,,,

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